This post is for the victims of the culture of comparison!

    I properly started writing this blog last year when I was going through a highly depressive period of my life. Some of theĀ  posts which I later deleted were so full of hopelessness that even I was surprised I wrote such things when i read them again some time later and eventually I […]

Types of Desi Aunties.

If you live in Pakistan or India then you must be familiar with desi aunties. You know the ones who ask unnecessary personal questions when they meet you, gossip endlessly about other people and strictly believe that one should get married at 25 and have kids by age 27. So, the thing is aunties can […]

The Price Of Being A Woman.

It’s common for girls in their twenties in Pakistan to hear that we should get married now because we won’t get any good ‘rishtas’ I.e proposals after few years and will then probably end up as old spinsters the moment we will cross the dreaded 30. The pressure society puts on girls to get married […]

Annoying Desi Superstitions.

As desis, we are highly superstitious and sometimes it gets so annoying. Like, you hear from elders all the time not to wear black on happy occasions like weddings or on Eid because black is colour for mourning apparently and its bad to wear black colour on such auspicious events. I love wearing black clothes […]