What It Is Like To Be A Loner.

Being a loner can be really hard sometimes. Sometimes,you wish you weren’t one. Being a loner with what people call a resting bitch face can be extra hard most of the times. People often mistakenly assume that either I am a highly rude person or I am just weird or sometimes they think I am […]

Random Things you hear as a girl/woman in Pakistan.

Randomness is part and parcel of life of a brown girl. Here are some of the things that particularly Pakistani girls hear sometimes from friends, sometimes from family and sometimes from complete strangers. “Sit properly.” “Don’t smile so much absentmindedly, it gives a bad impression” “Smile more, it gives a good impression about you !!” […]

An open letter to Pakistani Society.

Dear Society, I want to be a free woman. Free from your judgements and hurtful gossips. Free from the expectations of how a good girl should behave in a society. (Basically, she shouldn’t have an opinion and she should just focus on making good food and maintaining a household because that’s what is eventually the […]

What I learned In The Past Few Days.

I learned that I am too hard on myself and don’t trust my instincts and capabilities enough. I will try to be more relaxed and less rigid with myself and try to learn to love my imperfect self and embrace failures along with success. I will try to remember that some things are just out […]


I hate it when people normalize horrible things. I can’t understand why they do that.The vile things I hear from the mouth of so-called educated people disgust me to my core.People talk shit about women who had been divorced. People talk shit behind their backs and act like they support the women’s decision of getting […]